forget the typo error
I gave this girl 45K for her business when she needed it
she gave me 40k from her business when i needed it
she gives from her side while i give from my side too
when she request for those things girls want, i refused because i stated clearly that i save for the future business i intend to start because it would be much more beneficial for the both of us (my real intentions). she knew this was the plan but kept calling me stingy. i didnt worry. i became quite lenient and started spending a little more while keeping for my business (it wasnt enough for her) and decided to table my matter with her friend and they both insulted their selves not me. (the friend is a heartless girl that sleeps with an old man for a lot of money and use from the money to take care of her oblivious boyfriend)
i found the chat and concluded to be more concerned about myself. i am only 24 and have life ahead of me so why i do i even have a girl cvlearly, i am not ready for a relationship. i tried to break the relationship but it was unsuccssful. in fact the relationship has been destroyed like 15 times from mouth since i saw that chat while it truly ended once, but my pocknosing friend forced a reconcilation.
now since the post i realized even if i give this girl my whole account she will still call me stingy. so when her phone went bad today i told her to get the battey which is 4k. she refused and said she wanted a new phone. no wahala get 45k phone. she refused and stated she wanted 67k phone.
she asked me to support her with 15k, i was angry and sad as the useless chat came and my stingy/saving nature suddenly ran to an overdrive. i refused and told her i wil only give her 10k with anger in my heart.
giving her the money i told her that i am only giving her as a friend and not relationship because she will clearly still see as stingy. she exploded and wanted to pull down the house. i calmly kept my money.
the truth is i dont feel obligated to give her anything again and i also dont want the relationship or any other one. i feel like i have lost my mission which is becoming a really comfortable guy by 2022. she is a great person and i am an extreme saver (which is easily misinterpreted or rightly interpreted as stingy, i dont know.) relationship need money but who says it must be the guy is what i am not finding funny in our union. i want to end it so i stop wasting her time and mine. 24 is too young to be going through this yeye stress. i just finished school 2019 and my two potential associates are saving 50-100k monthly. i was saving about 100k monthly before but since this relationship even to save 70k is a problem.
and i work myself to the bone to earn the 120 to 150k i am earning now.