Who Really Is To Blame For The Failure Of A Child?

Meddy163 · by **Meddy163** » October 4th, 2020, 2:18 pm

Depends on the peer group

green20 · by **green20** » May 26th, 2020, 6:29 am

Hernandez Nicole wrote:
DopeArena wrote:is not about the failure but how both of them choose to handle it

green20 · by **green20** » May 26th, 2020, 6:28 am

Hernandez Nicole wrote:
Michael Daniel wrote:O
in appropriate comment

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 23rd, 2020, 8:21 pm

Michael Daniel wrote:O

in appropriate comment

Michael Daniel · by **Michael Daniel** » May 23rd, 2020, 8:04 pm

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 23rd, 2020, 12:49 pm

DopeArena wrote:is not about the failure but how both of them choose to handle it

Michael Daniel · by **Michael Daniel** » May 21st, 2020, 7:04 am

DopeArena · by **DopeArena** » May 20th, 2020, 11:18 pm

is not about the failure but how both of them choose to handle it

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 20th, 2020, 8:26 am

eMade wrote:
Michael Daniel wrote:Sometimes despite the parents training a child can get engaged into bad company
You're absolutely correct. In this case, the child is to blame. And the parents absolved of all blames.

eMade · by **eMade** » May 20th, 2020, 7:29 am

Michael Daniel wrote:Sometimes despite the parents training a child can get engaged into bad company

You're absolutely correct. In this case, the child is to blame. And the parents absolved of all blames.

Michael Daniel · by **Michael Daniel** » May 19th, 2020, 10:48 pm

Sometimes despite the parents training a child can get engaged into bad company

Michael Daniel · by **Michael Daniel** » May 19th, 2020, 10:47 pm

The child

green20 · by **green20** » May 19th, 2020, 4:45 pm

Marie27 wrote:I think its the parent

yeah, i agree with you

Marie27 · by **Marie27** » May 19th, 2020, 6:42 am

I think its the parent

green20 · by **green20** » May 18th, 2020, 6:51 pm

Chisommoses9 wrote:The children, some times parents make them fell bigger above all

yea, it starts from the parents

Chisommoses9 · by **Chisommoses9** » May 18th, 2020, 6:48 pm

The children, some times parents make them fell bigger above all

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 18th, 2020, 5:56 am

JMGold wrote:Well looking at how things are in this country no one is to be blamed for our lost, you are not born with a not born with a silver spoon yes but you can give your kids that which your parent didn't gave you.

you made a point

JMGold · by **JMGold** » May 18th, 2020, 1:21 am

Well looking at how things are in this country no one is to be blamed for our lost, you are not born with a not born with a silver spoon yes but you can give your kids that which your parent didn't gave you.

green20 · by **green20** » May 17th, 2020, 11:05 pm

maybe the pastor did not do the right thing at the right time, there is no way such thing can happen, unless he is not a real pastor

green20 · by **green20** » May 17th, 2020, 11:00 pm

it depends

makavelli25 · by **makavelli25** » May 17th, 2020, 10:54 pm

green20 wrote:i mean the cause of child failure starts from the parents before mentioning other groups

You know some parents are disciplinarians but still yet their kids end up wayward
Imagine a pastor child leading a robbery gang

green20 · by **green20** » May 17th, 2020, 10:42 pm

i mean the cause of child failure starts from the parents before mentioning other groups

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 17th, 2020, 10:34 pm

green20 wrote:before talking of other factors like the school, peer groups, and etc

yes go on

green20 · by **green20** » May 17th, 2020, 10:25 pm

before talking of other factors like the school, peer groups, and etc

green20 · by **green20** » May 17th, 2020, 10:23 pm

followed by the environment of the child

green20 · by **green20** » May 17th, 2020, 10:22 pm

i think the major cause is the parent

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 17th, 2020, 8:10 pm

Alexord wrote:When you said failure, what do you mean?

Alexord · by **Alexord** » May 17th, 2020, 6:21 pm

When you said failure, what do you mean?

Alexord · by **Alexord** » May 17th, 2020, 6:20 pm

Explain further

Scoper5043 · by **Scoper5043** » May 17th, 2020, 1:46 pm

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 17th, 2020, 11:26 am

eMade wrote:
Hernandez Nicole wrote:true, especially stealing
But if the child has been trained and taught well from home on how bad it is to steal, such influence from peers to steal may not succeed.

Parents have critical primary roles to play in a child's mental, spiritual and physical upbringing.

eMade · by **eMade** » May 17th, 2020, 11:19 am

Hernandez Nicole wrote:true, especially stealing

But if the child has been trained and taught well from home on how bad it is to steal, such influence from peers to steal may not succeed.

Parents have critical primary roles to play in a child's mental, spiritual and physical upbringing.

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 17th, 2020, 11:12 am

[ :thnk:quote="makavelli25"]

eMade wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:Even the society is to be blamed at times
Very true. But parents must try to.protect their kids from societal influence by

1. Loading them with the right values from home and from infancy. This helps
2. Spending time with gjem and not outsource parental roles to nannys, housemaids and schools
3. Showing them love and
4. Setting good examples at all times.

What i know is: everything adds together.

Every little thing a parent does helps or mars the childs chances of growing up responsible or as spoiled.

Parents, God has bestowed upon you great responsibility to upbring the child for good.

I will blame parents 80% of the time.

But look at it
90% of bad things we know,was learnt in the school[/quote] true, especially stealing

Hernandez Nicole · by **Hernandez Nicole** » May 17th, 2020, 11:11 am

Easy peasy,
The child

eMade · by **eMade** » May 16th, 2020, 9:46 pm

makavelli25 wrote:But look at it
90% of bad things we know,was learnt in the school

Children who are brought up well with good values from home fair better

makavelli25 · by **makavelli25** » May 16th, 2020, 7:24 pm

AK Horsfall wrote:
eMade wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:Even the society is to be blamed at times
Very true. But parents must try to.protect their kids from societal influence by

1. Loading them with the right values from home and from infancy. This helps
2. Spending time with gjem and not outsource parental roles to nannys, housemaids and schools
3. Showing them love and
4. Setting good examples at all times.

What i know is: everything adds together.

Every little thing a parent does helps or mars the childs chances of growing up responsible or as spoiled.

Parents, God has bestowed upon you great responsibility to upbring the child for good.

I will blame parents 80% of the time.
But we also need to focus on those street Children, who have no one to lean upon.

Well and perfectly said

AK Horsfall · by **AK Horsfall** » May 16th, 2020, 7:22 pm

eMade wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:Even the society is to be blamed at times
Very true. But parents must try to.protect their kids from societal influence by

1. Loading them with the right values from home and from infancy. This helps
2. Spending time with gjem and not outsource parental roles to nannys, housemaids and schools
3. Showing them love and
4. Setting good examples at all times.

What i know is: everything adds together.

Every little thing a parent does helps or mars the childs chances of growing up responsible or as spoiled.

Parents, God has bestowed upon you great responsibility to upbring the child for good.

I will blame parents 80% of the time.

But we also need to focus on those street Children, who have no one to lean upon.

makavelli25 · by **makavelli25** » May 16th, 2020, 7:05 pm

eMade wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:Even the society is to be blamed at times
Very true. But parents must try to.protect their kids from societal influence by

1. Loading them with the right values from home and from infancy. This helps
2. Spending time with gjem and not outsource parental roles to nannys, housemaids and schools
3. Showing them love and
4. Setting good examples at all times.

What i know is: everything adds together.

Every little thing a parent does helps or mars the childs chances of growing up responsible or as spoiled.

Parents, God has bestowed upon you great responsibility to upbring the child for good.

I will blame parents 80% of the time.

But look at it
90% of bad things we know,was learnt in the school

eMade · by **eMade** » May 16th, 2020, 6:36 pm

AK Horsfall wrote:Even the society is to be blamed at times

Very true. But parents must try to.protect their kids from societal influence by

1. Loading them with the right values from home and from infancy. This helps
2. Spending time with gjem and not outsource parental roles to nannys, housemaids and schools
3. Showing them love and
4. Setting good examples at all times.

What i know is: everything adds together.

Every little thing a parent does helps or mars the childs chances of growing up responsible or as spoiled.

Parents, God has bestowed upon you great responsibility to upbring the child for good.

I will blame parents 80% of the time.

AK Horsfall · by **AK Horsfall** » May 16th, 2020, 6:02 pm

Even the society is to be blamed at times

makavelli25 · by **makavelli25** » May 16th, 2020, 5:56 pm

Monobay_cw wrote:Let say, the parent

Both parents?

Monobay_cw · by **Monobay_cw** » May 16th, 2020, 5:13 pm

Let say, the parent

makavelli25 · by **makavelli25** » May 16th, 2020, 5:06 pm

eMade wrote:This is a complex situation o.

Anyone can be responsible depending 9n the situation.

Even the child can be blamed especially when everyone has tried but the child just wants to be Omo ipanle

At least some faults still go to the upbring

eMade · by **eMade** » May 16th, 2020, 4:56 pm

This is a complex situation o.

Anyone can be responsible depending 9n the situation.

Even the child can be blamed especially when everyone has tried but the child just wants to be Omo ipanle

makavelli25 · by **makavelli25** » May 16th, 2020, 4:48 pm

eMade wrote:Well, maybe you can explain more whar you mean by failure: academic? Spiritual? Which ones?

When i say failure
I mean all round

in
Academics
Career
Spiritual

eMade · by **eMade** » May 16th, 2020, 4:37 pm

Well, maybe you can explain more whar you mean by failure: academic? Spiritual? Which ones?

makavelli25 · by **makavelli25** » May 16th, 2020, 4:13 pm

Lets discuss

makavelli25 · by **makavelli25** » May 16th, 2020, 4:11 pm

Most people will say it is the Mother but what about the Father
The Religion
The School
Or the Enviroment.

Who really is to blame for the failure of a child ?