When are you bringing husband home?

Pampers · May 12th, 2020, 7:16 pm

Yes, you heard me right: When are you bringing husband home?

When a Yoruba lady hears that from her mum, then you should know the implications: You mum is telling you that you are overstaying your welcome in your parents home.

Or you are overdue for marriage.

How better can a lady handle this situation? Go get just any guy?

Or what?

makavelli25 · May 12th, 2020, 7:19 pm

Let me sit here and wait for the elders
@eMade
Hotsaint
Akhorsfall

eMade · May 12th, 2020, 7:40 pm

Well... for now, I reserve my comments.

But truth is... this can put the lady under undue pressure. Its better to be patient till you find the correct man. No perfect man out there. But you can still be patient to find the guy you can fall in love with. And manage his imperfection. While remembering you aint perfect yourself.

Mr Right dont exist.

But dont let pressure from parents make you rush.

Wait wait wait. I said I reserve my comment, did I reserve it?

If I really wanna comment, maybe I'd write encyclopedia.
BRB.

makavelli25 · May 12th, 2020, 8:01 pm

eMade wrote:Well... for now, I reserve my comments.

But truth is... this can put the lady under undue pressure. Its better to be patient till you find the correct man. No perfect man out there. But you can still be patient to find the guy you can fall in love with. And manage his imperfection. While remembering you aint perfect yourself.

Mr Right dont exist.

But dont let pressure from parents make you rush.

Wait wait wait. I said I reserve my comment, did I reserve it?

If I really wanna comment, maybe I'd write encyclopedia.
BRB.

The elders are here

AK Horsfall · May 12th, 2020, 8:25 pm

This whole thing took back my memory to a movie titled, "Kemi, the story of a desperate lady",

But some girls are the reason why they are yet to marry.

Some are too rude, arrogant and have high taste.

NiceGuy · May 12th, 2020, 8:27 pm

AK Horsfall wrote:This whole thing took back my memory to a movie titled, "Kemi, the story of a desperate lady",

But some girls are the reason why they are yet to marry.

Some are too rude, arrogant and have high taste.

And .... Deyum. Some are impatient!

Asking you what you want out of the relationship.

Cant it start with friendship?

They will end up friendzoning u or pursuing you.

AK Horsfall · May 12th, 2020, 8:30 pm

NiceGuy wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:This whole thing took back my memory to a movie titled, "Kemi, the story of a desperate lady",

But some girls are the reason why they are yet to marry.

Some are too rude, arrogant and have high taste.
And .... Deyum. Some are impatient!

Asking you what you want out of the relationship.

Cant it start with friendship?

They will end up friendzoning u or pursuing you.

The worst thing is that, they will be calling you bestie, even when they know you love them badly . That is pure wickedness

NiceGuy · May 12th, 2020, 8:50 pm

AK Horsfall wrote:The worst thing is that, they will be calling you bestie, even when they know you love them badly . That is pure wickedness

Seems my guy has a personal experience.

Sincerely it can be painful.

But not to worry.

The ladies usually live to regret it.

May God not let us use our husband to do boyfriend and our boyfriend to do husband.

AK Horsfall · May 12th, 2020, 9:06 pm

NiceGuy wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:The worst thing is that, they will be calling you bestie, even when they know you love them badly . That is pure wickedness
Seems my guy has a personal experience.

Sincerely it can be painful.

But not to worry.

The ladies usually live to regret it.

May God not let us use our husband to do boyfriend and our boyfriend to do husband.

And May God not allow us use our Girlfriends As wife, And our wives as girlfriends. Amen

eMade · May 12th, 2020, 9:07 pm

AK Horsfall wrote:And May God not allow us use our Girlfriends As wife, And our wives as girlfriends. Amen

What are you guys saying? But I think I understood.

Some people are wife materials while some are just good for girlfriend. Right?

AK Horsfall · May 12th, 2020, 9:08 pm

eMade wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:And May God not allow us use our Girlfriends As wife, And our wives as girlfriends. Amen
What are you guys saying? But I think I understood.

Some people are wife materials while some are just good for girlfriend. Right?

No. You didn't understand

eMade · May 12th, 2020, 9:23 pm

AK Horsfall wrote:No. You didn't understand

Explain o

AK Horsfall · May 12th, 2020, 9:29 pm

eMade wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:No. You didn't understand
Explain o

Meaning, we shouldn't as a result friendzoning turn our potential wives to girlfriends and our potential girlfriends to wives

Still confused?

eMade · May 12th, 2020, 9:36 pm

AK Horsfall wrote:Meaning, we shouldn't as a result friendzoning turn our potential wives to girlfriends and our potential girlfriends to wives
Still confused?

I get it clear!

AK Horsfall · May 12th, 2020, 9:45 pm

eMade wrote:
AK Horsfall wrote:Meaning, we shouldn't as a result friendzoning turn our potential wives to girlfriends and our potential girlfriends to wives
Still confused?
I get it clear!

Better

zaruleoflaw2 · May 13th, 2020, 5:01 am

Interesting stuff about marriage is that if you rush in, you will probably rush out too. Enigmatic

eMade · May 13th, 2020, 6:53 am

zaruleoflaw2 wrote:Interesting stuff about marriage is that if you rush in, you will probably rush out too. Enigmatic

Or you groan under the spell and turture of your own selfmade jail and jailer for the rest of your life. Thats worse and gory.

Take your time. But dont miss opportunity too while looking for mr or miss right who are long nonexistent.
Marry your friend.

makavelli25 · May 13th, 2020, 6:56 am

So many lessons

AK Horsfall · May 13th, 2020, 8:50 am

eMade wrote:
zaruleoflaw2 wrote:Interesting stuff about marriage is that if you rush in, you will probably rush out too. Enigmatic
Or you groan under the spell and turture of your own selfmade jail and jailer for the rest of your life. Thats worse and gory.

Take your time. But dont miss opportunity too while looking for mr or miss right who are long nonexistent.
Marry your friend.

I like the last line

zaruleoflaw2 · May 13th, 2020, 11:25 am

eMade wrote:
zaruleoflaw2 wrote:Interesting stuff about marriage is that if you rush in, you will probably rush out too. Enigmatic
Or you groan under the spell and turture of your own selfmade jail and jailer for the rest of your life. Thats worse and gory.

Take your time. But dont miss opportunity too while looking for mr or miss right who are long nonexistent.
Marry your friend.

RIMZY23 · May 15th, 2020, 1:26 pm

let her be allow to marry at the time she want not pressure her

eMade · September 23rd, 2020, 6:19 am

RIMZY23 wrote:let her be allow to marry at the time she want not pressure her

Thank you.

Deon · September 23rd, 2020, 7:00 am

RIMZY23 wrote:let her be allow to marry at the time she want not pressure her

E get why that pressure dey,
menopause no get patience.

eMade · September 23rd, 2020, 7:01 am

Deon wrote:E get why that pressure dey,
menopause no get patience.

Is it all about child bearing?

One will now rush and bring pain upon herself.

Balance is needed.

Kelzy boy · October 29th, 2020, 9:49 am

Kelzy boy · October 29th, 2020, 9:56 am

Falcon1 · October 30th, 2020, 6:53 am

Because that's tradition

Merlino · October 30th, 2020, 6:57 am

Falcon1 wrote:Because that's tradition

Outdated tradition

Abelwize101 · November 3rd, 2020, 8:09 am

well, its her choice. To succumb to the pressure or take her stand and wait for her 'Mr Perfect'

Kelceeboy · November 3rd, 2020, 8:27 am

Kelvinsmith · November 3rd, 2020, 8:39 am

Horlar626 · November 3rd, 2020, 3:21 pm

TitanKenneth · November 16th, 2020, 12:45 am

Afojoyin · December 7th, 2020, 1:16 am

God time

eMade · December 8th, 2020, 10:04 am

Afojoyin wrote:God time

Abi o

Debunie · December 8th, 2020, 10:18 am

funny554 · January 21st, 2021, 2:53 pm

ogunbusuyi12 · February 11th, 2021, 1:26 am

outdated version

eMade · February 11th, 2021, 4:19 pm

ogunbusuyi12 wrote:outdated version

JUBILEGEND · February 18th, 2021, 9:20 pm

i know one in this kind of situation will be under pressure but giving in will cause more harm than good. bcos nigeria parents i know all they are after is to their carry grandchidren regardless of the pain and unhappiness their children may face in a relationship entered into via pressure

eMade · February 18th, 2021, 9:29 pm

JUBILEGEND wrote:i know one in this kind of situation will be under pressure but giving in will cause more harm than good. bcos nigeria parents i know all they are after is to their carry grandchidren regardless of the pain and unhappiness their children may face in a relationship entered into via pressure

True fact. Thank you!

thankgod2021 · March 9th, 2021, 10:26 am

yes o
you are right

onyeka · March 17th, 2021, 1:43 pm

yaroummu · April 4th, 2021, 9:30 pm

Very funny

Debunie · April 4th, 2021, 10:14 pm

Gods time oh

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