Opinion: Is It Right For A Lady To Ask A Man Out?

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Is it OK if she proposes?

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Merlino
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Location: Port Harcourt
 

November 23rd, 2010, 10:34 am

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Some women seem to be tired of waiting. Is he not getting all my signs? I want him, but he seems not to notice. Can I let the word out?
I am sure its something that happens these days, but it doesn't seem right to me. Is it right if a woman should ask a man out? To me, it will make the man inferior, what do u guys think? :?
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ebong
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Location: africa
 

November 23rd, 2010, 2:03 pm

I dont see anything wrong in it. :cool:
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Thracian

December 17th, 2010, 8:00 pm

ebong wrote:I dont see anything wrong in it. :cool:
really?
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Dydx
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December 17th, 2010, 8:02 pm

Merlino wrote:I am sure its something that happens these days, but it doesn't seem right to me. Is it right if a woman should ask a man out? To me, it will make the man inferior, what do u guys think? :?
Thracian wrote:
ebong wrote:I dont see anything wrong in it. :cool:
really?
Did a girl ask you out? And you are confused? :w':
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swa99
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Location: FCT
 

December 21st, 2010, 5:59 pm

Notin spoil o. :good:
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Alabaster
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February 8th, 2011, 5:17 am

Its no big deal. d guy still retains d right to say yes or no! :mrgreen:
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shinene2020
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February 8th, 2011, 10:17 pm

whether the mountain goes to muhamed or the other way round the most important thing is that the two must meet. so there is no crime in it, i have been asked out by girls about five times now, so nothing special about it
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Godwin
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April 26th, 2011, 1:23 pm

it doesnt make sense. the guy is ordained to do this. :what:
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ramata
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May 15th, 2011, 11:23 am

if you are a girl, dont dare it. it makes u appear like a prostitute! :what:
HenryIII
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October 5th, 2012, 9:07 am

If we truly live in a free world, practice democracy, I personally don't see anything wrong with a lady asking a man out.
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NiceGuy
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Location: Lagos
 

October 26th, 2012, 8:15 pm

HenryIII wrote:If we truly live in a free world, practice democracy, I personally don't see anything wrong with a lady asking a man out.
Still, we shouldn't ignore and forsake our cultural and moral values. :cool:
I'm really not that nice... :mrgreen:
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sweetyfavor200
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November 23rd, 2012, 3:57 pm

Hello Dears,
I personally cannot do it, its just unnatural. Dats me sha.
:w':
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kemosky
Junior
 

February 4th, 2013, 6:51 pm

Lol! Why would a lady wanna ask a guy out? Where is your pride as a lady? That's absurd. I for once doesnt buy into the idea of a lady asking a guy out, even the holy book states that "he who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtain favor from the lord" why isnt it the other way round? I am a lady and i dont see myself doing that as long as i live on this planet earth. Mbanu!
charlly008
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March 28th, 2014, 10:36 am

Nothing is bad in it. The lady may love the guy. I think what matter most is,if they both love each other.
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April 5th, 2014, 3:18 pm

its simply not adisable. it rarely works out well. it can, but rarely. simply be patient, girl
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Champ123
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June 7th, 2014, 7:38 pm

Dont see no big deal
Life is simple. Seriously. :mrgreen:
femgold
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Location: Ekiti
 

July 2nd, 2014, 11:24 pm

There is nothing bad in it. Is it a conventional for men to start the move? Lady can do it. Just because Africa culture did not permit a lady to proposed to a man does not mean a lady cannot ask a man out for dating. What a man can do, a woman may do it better and fine.
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Boma
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Location: Montreal
 

September 18th, 2014, 9:00 am

There is no wrong thing in a lady ask a man out. But it mainly depends on the approach the lady puts forward to the man. If a lady puts forward a flirty attitude, then the man takes her for a flirt. And if a lady approaches a man decently, strikes a friendship with him then they continue from there. But one rule remains so important, never ask out a man who is in an 'active' relationship because he might end up forced to use and dump you only to return to his original relationship.
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ItuGlobal
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February 24th, 2016, 10:22 pm

There's nothing wrong with this. Woman have equal rights with us?
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JQuinn
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September 15th, 2016, 3:32 pm

No, I have too much pride to do such :p
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lolao24
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Location: Lexignton
 

October 5th, 2016, 7:31 am

there is nothing bad in that
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OJEY JAHSMAN
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November 7th, 2016, 4:09 pm

It's not a bad idea to approach a man. Bt it musnt be straight open up (go about the bush)and he would understand.
lolliepop
Newbie
 

February 25th, 2017, 2:12 am

no i dont think its right ive got pride dont they have pride or what
dimu1
Newbie
 

April 17th, 2018, 1:58 am

For Me, its not really that big a deal but she has to understand who the guy is. if he is d extremely shy type or d ones who send strange singnals( opportunists)
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Fnor
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Location: Romania, Bucharest
 

May 2nd, 2018, 2:55 am

I dont see anything wrong in it
Xbrmathias2
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October 7th, 2018, 7:40 pm

Yea because there is equality in relationship.
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Yinka
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Location: Nigeria
 

October 7th, 2018, 7:48 pm

It's not always common back in the days,but the girls we have now can go extra mile.
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February 1st, 2019, 3:50 pm

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Pteemoney
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Location: United Kingdom
 

November 16th, 2019, 7:18 am

There is nothing wrong in a lady going for a man she loves...
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DopeArena
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March 12th, 2020, 10:52 am

theres nothing wrong in it. Where most girls fail is - they ask the wrong guy out. As much as we are guyz there are some of us who are extremely shy
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Favour12
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April 10th, 2020, 6:57 am

DopeArena wrote:theres nothing wrong in it. Where most girls fail is - they ask the wrong guy out. As much as we are guyz there are some of us who are extremely shy
:shkd:
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Favour12
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April 10th, 2020, 6:57 am

Prodigy wrote:As for me is bad
me too
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Favour12
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April 10th, 2020, 6:58 am

ebong wrote:I dont see anything wrong in it. :cool:
really
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Favour12
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April 10th, 2020, 6:58 am

ebong wrote:I dont see anything wrong in it. :cool:
really
dimu1 wrote:For Me, its not really that big a deal but she has to understand who the guy is. if he is d extremely shy type or d ones who send strange singnals( opportunists)
:shkd:
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Favour12
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April 10th, 2020, 6:58 am

Pteemoney wrote:There is nothing wrong in a lady going for a man she loves...
true
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makavelli25
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April 22nd, 2020, 12:23 pm

Its no big deal. I will even like it if a gal toast me
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Champ123
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April 25th, 2020, 12:14 pm

makavelli25 wrote:Its no big deal. I will even like it if a gal toast me
Are you Nigerian? :excited:
Life is simple. Seriously. :mrgreen:
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SILASLOADED
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May 3rd, 2020, 5:49 am

In some cases it is right cause i dont see any crime in that.
DopeArena
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May 26th, 2020, 10:23 am

Not an issue. The reason for this question is our mindset. We have to change that
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