Opinion: Is It Right For A Lady To Ask A Man Out?

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Favourak23
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May 26th, 2020, 1:06 pm

I don't see anything wrong in it

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eMade
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May 27th, 2020, 7:04 am

I've never done it. Doesn't feel right.

But I think you can make it happen without asking him out directly.

Some people start dating without knowing it.

What's dating anyway? :D:
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makavelli25
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May 27th, 2020, 7:22 am

Champ123 wrote:
makavelli25 wrote:Its no big deal. I will even like it if a gal toast me
Are you Nigerian? :excited:
yes i am
eMade wrote:I've never done it. Doesn't feel right.

But I think you can make it happen without asking him out directly.

Some people start dating without knowing it.

What's dating anyway? :D:
i kinda go with you on this one
The gal doesnt really need to say it out.
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eMade
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May 27th, 2020, 7:24 am

makavelli25 wrote:i kinda go with you on this one
The gal doesnt really need to say it out.
If a girl really likes you, you should know. And what signal else do you need? Take responsibility. Lead the way before another guy gets her attention. Demn it! :excited:
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Deon
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May 27th, 2020, 7:28 am

makavelli25 wrote:Its no big deal. I will even like it if a gal toast me
:excited: :excited: then when she is done you tell her "let me think about it"
i'm sure you will even like it more!
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makavelli25
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May 27th, 2020, 7:32 am

Deon wrote:
makavelli25 wrote:Its no big deal. I will even like it if a gal toast me
:excited: :excited: then when she is done you tell her "let me think about it"
i'm sure you will even like it more!
Yes na
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eMade
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May 27th, 2020, 7:34 am

Deon wrote:
makavelli25 wrote:Its no big deal. I will even like it if a gal toast me
:excited: :excited: then when she is done you tell her "let me think about it"
i'm sure you will even like it more!
And when the coast is clear, you tell her: It was all your idea. I wasnt ready. :lol; :excited:
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makavelli25
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May 27th, 2020, 7:48 am

eMade wrote:
Deon wrote:
makavelli25 wrote:Its no big deal. I will even like it if a gal toast me
:excited: :excited: then when she is done you tell her "let me think about it"
i'm sure you will even like it more!
And when the coast is clear, you tell her: It was all your idea. I wasnt ready. :lol; :excited:
I certainly wont do that
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eMade
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May 27th, 2020, 8:01 am

I certainly wont do that
Sincerely sir, my brother, it is better for you to marry a woman who truly loves you more than you love her. If you go after a woman who gives less crap about you but you are dying to have her, it rarely ends well. You'll hurt yourself.

So appreciate that woman who shows she loves you.

That's who you need to live a happy life. Trust me.

Of course I'm not saying you should blind your eyes to other issues that makes a lady suitable or unsuitable.

Balance it out.

Hope you got my point.
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legit Raphael
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June 2nd, 2020, 7:24 pm

It depends on how much the girl love the guy
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Adesina Taiwo
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June 2nd, 2020, 8:49 pm

I don't see any big deal there as long as u love him
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green20
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June 3rd, 2020, 7:34 am

Adesina Taiwo wrote:I don't see any big deal there as long as u love him
:tu:
"We must use time wisely and forever realize that the time is always ripe to do right."
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green20
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June 4th, 2020, 1:58 am

Victorpat22 wrote:Nice post
:tu:
"We must use time wisely and forever realize that the time is always ripe to do right."
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ajebo
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June 5th, 2020, 9:31 pm

no
Don’t blow off another man's candle for it won’t make yours shine brighter.
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Sakuse
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August 4th, 2020, 9:51 am

Let's just say, I believe that a guy or a girl can take the first step in a relationship.
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August 4th, 2020, 10:13 am

OK
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eMade
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August 4th, 2020, 4:50 pm

Sakuse wrote:Let's just say, I believe that a guy or a girl can take the first step in a relationship.
I agree.
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ddhenry1
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August 23rd, 2020, 10:57 am

Its very bad..... Am not in support. Such situation will make the guy feel she is desperate
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eMade
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August 23rd, 2020, 11:04 am

ddhenry1 wrote:Its very bad..... Am not in support. Such situation will make the guy feel she is desperate
:thnk:
I think it depends on many factors: how long they've been dating, the location, and how she did it
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ddhenry1
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August 23rd, 2020, 11:11 am

eMade wrote:
ddhenry1 wrote:Its very bad..... Am not in support. Such situation will make the guy feel she is desperate
:thnk:
I think it depends on many factors: how long they've been dating, the location, and how she did it
I am still not okay with that..... I won't even allow her
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eMade
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August 23rd, 2020, 11:12 am

ddhenry1 wrote:I am still not okay with that..... I won't even allow her
What if you never knew she would do it and she asks you out or proposes in public? :thnk:
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eMade
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August 23rd, 2020, 11:28 am

jaybright wrote:Honestly i see nothing wrong with it
Thanks jare. The world has changed.

If you love somebody, walk up to him/her and tell him/her you love them!

Else, you may miss your soulmate! :D:
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MOTI
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October 15th, 2020, 9:52 pm

ebong wrote:I dont see anything wrong in it. :cool:
There is nothing wrong with it, but here in Africa especially Nigeria, men tend to look down on such ladies- they see them as being cheap. You can imagine statements such as this during quarrel ' after all na you find me'
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eMade
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October 15th, 2020, 9:54 pm

MOTI wrote:
ebong wrote:I dont see anything wrong in it. :cool:
There is nothing wrong with it, but here in Africa especially Nigeria, men tend to look down on such ladies- they see them as being cheap. You can imagine statements such as this during quarrel ' after all na you find me'
You have a point. That's why a girl needs to look very well.

Any girl who wants to do it must do it with caution. And maybe indirectly. :D:
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andyguy2k
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October 15th, 2020, 9:59 pm

Its un heard of, its absurd and its un ethical. But the white man has come with their religion, they cut their knife deep into what has join us together.
Behold things are falling apart.
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Champ123
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October 16th, 2020, 4:33 am

andyguy2k wrote:Its un heard of, its absurd and its un ethical. But the white man has come with their religion, they cut their knife deep into what has join us together.
Behold things are falling apart.
And yet we accepted the religion of the white men. We have inherited their lifestyles too. :shkd:
Life is simple. Seriously. :mrgreen:
Abelwize101
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November 3rd, 2020, 8:25 am

its not dat bad oh. For example, me. I cant approach a gal. I'll always have noting to say so i dont even bother. If d gal had waited too long for me & she comes asking, i'll gladly open my arms oh. Dis life na once
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Kelvinsmith
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November 3rd, 2020, 8:44 am

From next year na girl will start to pay bride price sorry i mean groom price
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eMade
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November 5th, 2020, 9:58 pm

Yaxmoh wrote:If she is so sure
its risky
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Deon
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November 6th, 2020, 9:19 pm

ofor01 wrote:Improper
Why?
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